Weekend Schedule
Friday, October 17, 2025
5:00 PM - 8:00 PM
Welcome BBQ
Join us for a casual welcome BBQ outside by the lake.
Attire: Casual
Saturday, October 18, 2025
8:00 AM - 10:00 AM
Breakfast
Breakfast will be provided in the Dining Hall.
At your leisure
Daytime Activities
Optional self-guided hikes on the Ashokan property.
Canoeing in the (small) lake.
Sauna sessions available by the lake.
Quaker meeting / meditation for those who wish to attend.
Wedding document signing.
12:00 PM - 1:00 PM
Lunch
A light lunch will be provided in the Dining Hall.
Attire: Casual
4:00 PM - 4:45 PM
Ceremony
Attire: Self-expressive cocktail attire
5:00 PM - 4:00 AM
Cocktail Hour, Reception, & Dancing
Cocktails, dinner, live band, and dancing in the Performance Hall with DJ to follow.
Sunday, October 19, 2025
10:00 AM - 12:00 PM
Farewell Brunch
Join us for a casual farewell brunch at the Ashokan Center Dining Hall.
Attire: Casual
Additional Notes
- All meals will be provided through the weekend.
- Weather in the Catskills in October can be variable. We recommend bringing layers and checking the forecast before your trip.
- The ceremony site is a short walk from the main buildings. Comfortable shoes are recommended.
- For those staying on-site, check-in will be available from 1:00 PM on Friday.
- We will have childcare onsite in a play area during the ceremony, reception, and dancing.
- There is no hard checkout time on Sunday.